Episode 7: The Scapegoated Child, the Fixer, and the Family System That Creates Trauma
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Episode 7: The Scapegoated Child, the Fixer, and the Family System That Creates Trauma
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In this episode of SUITT & BOOT, Tshai shares her lived experience growing up inside a family system where trauma wasn’t a single event — it was a pattern.
This episode explores how children who grow up without emotional protection often become scapegoats, fixers, people pleasers, or are placed into multiple roles at once — praised for being “strong” while being blamed for everything that goes wrong.
Tshai breaks down:
- What it means to be the scapegoated child
- How children are placed into dual roles (scapegoat and golden child)
- Why fixers lose their identity in adulthood
- How wounded boys and wounded girls often find each other
- Why healing can feel disorienting and lonely
- How unhealed parents and in-law dynamics compound generational trauma
This is not about blaming parents, partners, or families.
This episode is about pattern recognition, nervous system survival, and breaking cycles that were never meant to be carried.
If you’ve ever felt like you were “too strong,” “too responsible,” or “the one who holds everyone together,” this episode is for you.
SUITT & BOOT is about Standing Up in Truth & Transformation — and breaking out of trauma, one pattern at a time.
