What if manifestation wasn’t about visualising harder, fixing your mindset, or constantly working on yourself?

What if it was about removing pressure instead of adding effort?

In this spontaneous, reflective episode, I share how my understanding of manifestation has fundamentally shifted — especially through motherhood, nervous system awareness, and the teachings of Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland and the work of Richard Dotts.

This isn’t a “how-to” episode.

It’s an invitation to see life differently.

In this episode, I explore:

• Why many manifestation practices feel performative — and why they quietly exhaust us

• How motherhood pulls us deeper into the movie of life, where emotions feel intense and personal

• The concept of being inside the movie vs behind the projector — and why this shift changes everything

• How over-attachment, self-evaluation, and meaning-making create interference

• Why ease comes from subtraction, not effort

• The nervous system’s role in clarity, flow, and receiving

• Why the things that arrived easily in your life likely came without force or pressure

• How desire becomes heavier when it’s tied to worth, identity, or proof

• What it means to receive responsibility, money, ambition, and life itself — instead of managing or controlling it

• Why some cycles naturally close — and why forcing the next chapter creates resistance

This episode is about orientation.

Remembering where you stand.

And allowing life to meet you without struggle.

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Gosia x