In this episode, we explore communication strategies grounded in assertiveness and empathy when interacting with a narcissistic sibling, informed by neuroscience and how the narcissistic brain functions. This empathic approach is not about enabling or excusing harmful behavior, but about creating opportunities for emotion-focused dialogue that may access suppressed empathy. We offer examples of how these conversations might unfold and conclude with reflective questions to help you decide whether this approach is right for you.

Note to listeners: Some strategies discussed may not be suitable for everyone. If maintaining boundaries or distance is necessary for your well-being, please honor that. If applying these strategies with a sibling feels too difficult, seeking support from a qualified therapist is encouraged.

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