Forget everything you think you know about dating advice. This isn't about playing games or learning to "communicate better." This is about a fundamental re-orientation. We're stoking the communal fire and getting back to the core of Female Dating Strategy: You.

Patricia and Rose kick off 2026 by sharing their raw, personal "origin stories" of how they found FDS-one through a dramatic breakup involving black trash bags, the other through breaking a lifetime of enforced silence. They dismantle the societal weaponization of "niceness," explore why being "mean" is a necessary survival tool, and lay out the foundational FDS pyramid: Level Up, Boundaries & Standards, and Dating with Intent.

This is a call to arms for queens everywhere to stop betraying themselves, start trusting their intuition, and build a life so solid that the right relationship is only an addition-never the foundation.

•Owning "Mean": Why we wear the title with pride. The crucial difference between being kind (a choice) and being nice (a trap). Takeaway: "Fuck niceness. Be as mean as you need to be. This world will take advantage."

•Origin Stories & Self-Betrayal:

-Patricia's "Not This" Moment: Ending a dead-end relationship by bagging a man's belongings and changing the locks. The revealing question that followed: "What in me allowed me to stay?"

-Rose's Voice: How childhood silencing led to a physical inability to speak up. Becoming an FDS host was an act of reclaiming her voice and "enacting her values in the real world."

🏛️ The FDS Pyramid:

1. LEVEL UP (The Foundation):
2. BOUNDARIES & STANDARDS (The Framework)
3. DATING WITH INTENT (The Pinnacle)

📣 We Want YOU!

• New Schedule: Bi-weekly episodes are back.
• Get Involved: Email us your Level-Up Stories, Roast-a-Scrote tales, advice questions, or guest suggestions at: contact@femaledatingstrategy.com

"We're just resonating truths that already exist in each and every one of us."