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Fawning

Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back

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Fawning

De : Dr. Ingrid Clayton
Lu par : Dr. Ingrid Clayton
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 From a clinical psychologist and expert in complex trauma recovery comes a powerful guide introducing fawning, an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma—explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self.

Most of us are familiar with the three F's of trauma—fight, flight, or freeze. But psychologists have identified a fourth, extremely common (yet little-understood) response: fawning. Often conflated with “codependency” or “people-pleasing,” fawning occurs when we inexplicably draw closer to a person or relationship that causes pain, rather than pulling away.

  • Do you apologize to people who have hurt you?
  • Ignore their bad behavior?
  • Befriend your bullies?
  • Obsess about saying the right thing?
  • Make yourself into someone you’re not . . . while seeking approval that may never come?

You might be a fawner.

Fawning explains why we stay in bad jobs, fall into unhealthy partnerships, and tolerate dysfunctional environments, even when it seems so obvious to others that we should go. And though fawning serves a purpose—it’s an ingenious protective strategy in unsafe situations—it’s a problem if it becomes a repetitive, compulsory reaction in our daily lives.

But here’s the good news: we can break the pattern of chronic fawning, once we see it for the trauma response it is. Drawing on twenty years of clinical psychology work—as well as a lifetime of experience as a recovering fawner herself—Dr. Ingrid Clayton demonstrates WHY we fawn, HOW to recognize the signs of fawning (including taking blame, conflict avoidance, hypervigilance, and caretaking at the expense of ourselves), and WHAT we can do to successfully “unfawn” and finally be ourselves, in all our imperfect perfection. Beziehungen Emotionen & Gefühle Kommunikation & soziale Kompetenz Liebe, Partnersuche & Attraktivität Persönliche Entwicklung Seelische & Geistige Gesundheit

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I‘ve read so many books about trauma but this one was a Gamechanger. For the first time I recognized a pattern between Trauma and fawning.
Let’s defawn!

Totally new perspective

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It’s the second book by Ingrid Clayton I listened too. The value here is her non preach expertise, her great writing & the vulnerability of her humanity.
I recommend it greatly!

Great read & insight!

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A true revelation, highly recommended for any survivors of C-PTSD or therapeutical practicioners/trainees! Painful yet relieving at the same time. Helped me tremendously in understanding fawning and cultivating compassion for me having developed this genius survival strategy.

Baffled by the author's candour and generiosity sharing her story

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