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Most of us haven't stopped telling the truth. We've just learned which parts of it feel safe to share. This conversation might change the way you think about telling the truth, leading others, and helping people see what's possible for themselves.

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It's a three-day LIVE experience where I'll teach you a simple process to find meaningful things to share, turn them into content that connects, and keep creating in a way that feels true to you. There's a different way to grow your business, and it starts with a different way of leading yourself.

Missy Hydes is a NVP with Arbonne that has been in this profession for 22 years. In 2019, something happened she has never been able to explain. For three months, her business multiplied in a way that didn't make any sense. She wasn't pushing. She wasn't up until 2 a.m. on the closing night turning over every rock. She was running a 6 a.m. bible study, and telling her team that she loved them. Every day.

Here's what she couldn't explain. The people on her team started moving without her having to carry them. Other leaders started asking her what she was doing and she didn't even know what to tell them. Because the honest answer wasn't a system or a strategy. She couldn't explain it.

Twelve days after her big promotion, she wrote something in her journal: 'I can tell fear is trying to creep in, because I'm already afraid we're gonna lose everything we've just built.'

Over the next three years, she lost the title and watched most of her leaders quietly lay their businesses down. But she never left. Even though there were plenty of moments when she wanted to. Somewhere along the way she stopped telling her team she loved them. Stopped talking about culture. Started to focus on the rank, the numbers, and the pressures of leadership.

She even reached a point where she completely stopped posting on social media altogether. What she didn't realize was all the weight of carrying the rank and success caused her to emotionally disconnect from the business she once loved.

This conversation with Missy is about the season she could never explain, what happened when the scoreboard became the source of her confidence, and what she's beginning to understand about both of those things right now.

It's also about what HASN'T changed yet. Her numbers aren't up. But she said something that might matter even more: 'I don't feel successful. But I finally feel free.'

Annie Steicke is a RVP with Arbonne. For 13 years she believed great leaders stayed strong no matter what. They didn't let their team see them struggle. They stayed positive, held everything together, and carried the weight silently.

From the outside, her business looked successful.

Inside, leadership was getting heavier.

In this episode of Behind the Rank, Annie shares what happened when she realized she had spent years confusing perfomrance with leadership, why pretending everything was okay slowly disconnected her from her self and the people she loved most, and how one simple act of telling the truth changed everything.

Together, we explore:

• Why so many good leaders mistake emotional disconnection for strength
• The hidden cost of always feelilng like you have to hold it together for everyone else
• What happened when Annie shared a post she'd spent years believing she could never write
• What LOVE-LED Leadership looks like when you stop performing and start leading form who you really are

If you've ever felt like being a strong leader meant hiding what you were carrying, I think this conversation will help you see leadership, and yourself, in a completely different way.

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