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Triple Hearts

Triple Hearts

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We didn't build this for people who need permission. We built it for people who already made the decision and are tired of every app, lease, and holiday invite acting like they didn't. Monogamy isn't wrong. It's just not the only option, and somewhere along the way nobody updated the paperwork. The dropdown still has one box. The insurance form still has one plus sign. The relationship escalator still only goes one way, whether or not that's where you're headed. Here's what we believe. Love isn't a limited resource. Jealousy is data, not a verdict. A shared calendar can end a relationship faster than an affair ever could, and nobody warns you about that part. The hard part was never the sex. It was always Tuesday. We go after bad structures and bad arguments. Never at people, for how they love. That's the whole rule, and we don't break it. This is entertainment, not therapy. We're not licensed for anything except opinions, and we've got plenty. It's complicated. On purpose.2026 Triple Hearts LLC Art Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • EP 7: "Which One Is the Real One?" "Coming Out Poly"

    EP 7: "Which One Is the Real One?" "Coming Out Poly"
    8 Oct 2026
    Coming out isn't one big announcement. It happens again and again, with family, friends, co-workers, kids, and sometimes yourself. This week Koko and Lala get into living honestly while deciding who actually deserves access to your personal life. It opens with a listener who told her mom she has two partners and got asked, "So which one is the real one?" Koko's answer: both of them, and the question insults them both. They cover the news too: Ne-Yo losing endorsements after going public, and Akon saying the number of his wives is "up to one's imagination." Then the harder stuff. Should poly be protected like marital status? Would you tell your job? (Neither would.) Who in your family would be hardest to tell? Lala says her mom, in a family where her grandparents were married 51 years and her parents 38. Koko tells the Love After Lockup story: a man who had one woman pick him up from jail on the 20th, then went back, put the same clothes on, and had the other pick him up on the 21st. They talk kids: what to say when a child asks why someone looks different, the foster baby adopted by two dads, and the boy in Lala's DC program who cried when she hugged him. Word of the Day: polycurious. Coming out usually starts with coming out to yourself. The Open Letter: a mom who won't let the grandkids visit unless the girlfriend isn't around. Lala's answer is a hard no. You can choose honesty. You can choose privacy. What matters is that the choice is yours. Send your Open Letters to our DMs. We keep them anonymous. #TripleHearts #ComingOut #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #Polycurious
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • EP 6: "Single-ish" "Dating While Poly"

    EP 6: "Single-ish" "Dating While Poly"
    1 Oct 2026
    Dating is already complicated. Now add multiple partners, honesty, boundaries, and a whole lot of communication. This week, Koko and Lala talk about what dating while poly actually looks like, past the myths and the judgment. They start with Ne-Yo going public and the backlash he received for it. Then they get into hierarchy, the thing everyone new to poly worries about. Koko tells the story of a woman who went on two dates with her and her partner and decided the next day that the three of them were in a relationship. Her answer to the hierarchy fear: there's a hierarchy until there isn't. Let us get to know you first. Then it gets personal. Lala was out alone at a bar in DC when one of her partners walked in on a date with someone else. He came over and hugged her, and she says that made her like him more. Koko was with the same guy from 16 to 23 and picked her college because he was going there. Lala enlisted in the military because she was sleeping with her recruiter, then found out he had a wife and kids back home. They also try to figure out what solo poly is (Lala's verdict: that's just single), introduce this week's word, single-ish, debate whether jealousy is normal and whether one partner should meet all of your emotional needs, run through their green and red flags, and answer an Open Letter from a listener with two partners and a third who wants more. How do you tell someone you like them, but you're full? Next week is the sex episode. Send your Open Letters to our DMs. We keep them anonymous. #TripleHearts #Polyamory #DatingWhilePoly #EthicalNonMonogamy #Singleish
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    58 mins
  • F*ck Your Line

    F*ck Your Line
    24 Sep 2026
    You got a serial monogamist and a serial cheater in the same relationship. That was never going to work. Wait. That's not this story. This one starts at a movie set. Koko shows up to do makeup. Coop sees her and tells his boy on the spot: I'm in love with the Koko. She posts something. He slides in. She says he's got to get in line. He says, fuck your line. Three and a half years later, they're building a closed triad, a feature film, and a whole life together. But it didn't start clean. There was a so called girlfriend. A birthday party where Cocoa found out she might be the side piece. A New Year's cruise where he was on the phone with her the whole time while someone else was sitting across the table. A cabin trip that was supposed to be the end, and a Valentine's Day that made it the beginning. Episode whatever number this is, Coop joins Lala and Koko to tell the whole story. When did this actually become a relationship, and do they even agree? The first date that went until 4am. The year of playing around that wasn't really playing. The train ride to New York where they built the blueprint. The moment they sat on the phone for hours and said, if we're doing this, here's how. And the closed triad they've been working toward ever since. Here's what else is in it. The girl who bought Koko flowers on the first date, then said oh you coming too when Coop got up to leave. The one who was gorgeous until she opened her mouth and started whining in the backseat. Why people say they want honesty but really prefer the fantasy. The relationship escalator and why nobody has to ride it. His patience versus her discernment, and why she's usually right. And an open letter from someone who just found out her man slept with someone two months into what she thought was already a relationship. He says they weren't official. She says he knew exactly what they were building. Who gets to decide when it started? One rule we don't break. We challenge bad structures and bad arguments, never people for how they love. New episodes every Wednesday. This is entertainment, not therapy. We are licensed only for opinions. It's complicated. On purpose.
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    1 hr and 18 mins
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