Why do so many high achievers burn out? And even set goals they don't even want?

In this episode of The Underlayer, David Young and Katarina Kiseli break down the psychology of high achievers, burnout, and goal-setting mistakes that lead to exhaustion rather than fulfillment.


If you’ve ever felt:

- Driven but drained

- Successful but unsatisfied

- Productive but misaligned

- This conversation will help you understand why.

We unpack how social media comparison, the all-or-nothing mindset, and external validation quietly shape your goals, often without you realizing it.

And more importantly, we discuss how to reset.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✔ Why high achievers often set goals based on external validation
✔ The psychology behind burnout and overachievement
✔ How social media impacts self-worth and ambition
✔ The dangers of the all-or-nothing mindset
✔ How to build self-awareness through the Wheel of Life
✔ What a consumption audit is (and why it matters)
✔ How to set sustainable goals that prevent burnout
✔ Why self-trust is essential for long-term success


Who This Episode Is For:

- High performers experiencing burnout

- Entrepreneurs and executives questioning their goals

- Professionals struggling with comparison on social media

- Anyone interested in personal growth and self-awareness

- Ambitious individuals seeking sustainable success


About Katarina:

A former FBI analyst, a psychologist, and a coach who works closely with high-performing professionals navigating burnout, self-doubt, and identity shifts in midlife.

If you’re serious about personal growth, sustainable goal setting, and breaking the burnout cycle, subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications.

Katarina's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katarinakiseli/

Katarina's Website: https://projectmetherapynj.com/

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David's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-young-mba-indy/

Maira has spent two decades translating complex ideas into clear frameworks for senior leaders and experts, but her real gift isn’t just strategy. It’s helping high achievers identify the red thread running through their lives and turn it into a premium, sustainable offer.

In this episode, we go beneath the surface of the “zone of genius.” The real Z.O.G.

We unpack why so many smart, capable professionals build businesses around competence instead of calling, and why that almost always leads to burnout. We talk energy audits, intuition vs. data, childhood clues, pruning misaligned services, and how to architect a single signature offer that actually fits who you are.

If you’ve ever felt impressive on paper but misaligned in your day-to-day, this conversation will hit.

Highlights:

• The difference between what you’re good at and what truly energizes you
• Why burnout is often a signal, not a weakness
• How to identify the “red thread” across your career and seasons of life
• The hidden cost of low-ticket offers and scattered product suites
• How to design a signature offer around your one-of-one strengths
• Using intuition alongside data to make cleaner business decisions
• Why pruning services can increase margins, clarity, and momentum

This episode is for founders, coaches, and high performers who are ready to stop building around obligation and start building around alignment.

If it resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a quick review to help more curious minds find The Underlayer.

Maira's website: https://humairaakhter.com/

Maira's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/humairaakhter/

The Underlayer YouTube Channel: www.youtube.com/@the_under_layer

The Underlayer Podcast Website: https://www.theunderlayerpodcast.com/

David's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-young-mba-indy/

In this episode of The Underlayer, host David Young sits down with LinkedIn strategist and writer Allison Ditmer to explore the quiet pull for something more, and what happens when successful careers stop matching who we’re becoming.

Allison shares her journey from behind-the-scenes corporate marketer to visible creator and business owner, unpacking the emotional signals that pushed her toward reinvention. Together, David and Allison examine how identity shifts, fear, and misalignment often surface long before people make a career change, and why so many high performers ignore those signals for years.

This episode explores: What to do about that persistent whisper for “more.”

If you’re a mid-career professional or solopreneur navigating uncertainty, visibility, or the discomfort of putting yourself out there, this conversation will help you rethink branding, content, and career growth, not as tactics, but as expressions of alignment.

Topics covered:

• The emotional signs it’s time for a career shift
• Leaving corporate and the identity shock that follows
• Building a clear, credible personal brand on LinkedIn
• Why emotional connection matters more than clever content
• Writing in public as a path to authority and trust
• Newsletters as a long-term relationship-building tool
• The realities of solopreneurship: decision fatigue, sales discomfort, and resilience
• Why many service professionals eventually move toward scalable creator models

This episode is an invitation to listen more closely to what your discomfort is telling you, and to build a career, brand, and body of work that actually fits the season you’re in.

Allison's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allisonditmer/

Allison's Website: allisonditmer.com

The Underlayer YouTube Channel: www.youtube.com/@the_under_layer

The Underlayer Podcast Website: https://www.theunderlayerpodcast.com/

David's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-young-mba-indy/