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Following up the popular men's dating panel, today we hear from 4 Christian women about what they're really looking for in a man, the biggest red and green flags, and how to tell if a woman's interested in you (especially if she's shy).

Tianna: https://instagram.com/tiannasclark

Lucy: https://instagram.com/lucyspottsmusic

Mary: https://instagram.com/marystringini

Sophia: https://instagram.com/sophiaslorey

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00:00:00 - Intro

00:02:30 - Dating Experience in the Past Year

00:04:35 - Are men afraid to ask you out on person?

00:07:22 - What do men misunderstand about women?

00:10:16 - Women struggle why shyness too

00:10:49 - Red flags when meeting a guy

00:13:00 - Is she interested in you?

00:15:33 - How NOT to get a girl:

00:18:26 - Creepy vs compliment

00:21:55 - If a girl doesn’t want to go on a date:

00:25:29 - Hangout? No. Date? Yes

00:27:36 - How do women drop handkerchief?

00:37:05 - Dating apps: yay or nay?

00:45:53 - How to meet new people?

00:49:14 - Faith standards

01:00:02 - What does it mean for men to be providers?

01:04:52 - What does masculinity look like?

01:13:04 - Something you wouldn’t admit on a first date:

01:13:22 - How important are finances?

01:15:22 - What if he’s less educated than you?

01:17:16 - Biggest mistakes you’ve made in dating:

01:23:59 - What do women find attractive in men?

01:25:17 - Is it okay to have virginity as a standard?

01:29:37 - Romantic gestures women appreciate:

01:30:41 - What does submission look like?

Haley saw transgender YouTubers as a child and she wanted what they seemed to have...the only issue: Haley lived in a Christian household. Over the next few years Haley distanced herself from her family and church as she embraced a transgender identity, even undergoing surgery. Today, she shares the incredible journey from Haley to Fletcher and back to Haley.

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00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:11 - Believing she was a boy

00:02:25 - Religious Upbringing

00:04:50 - Anger at the church

00:07:23 - Did you feel love from your parents?

00:08:57 - Becoming aggressive with her family

00:11:39 - The night that changed everything

00:21:36 - Feelings of shame

00:24:35 - Did your family notice a difference?

00:31:06 - When did you first identify as trans?

00:36:28 - Preparing for transition

00:41:13 - Identifying as bisexual

00:46:53 - Taking hormones for the first time

00:50:22 - Getting surgery

00:53:40 - Waking up without a uterus

00:54:53 - The double mastectomy

00:56:50 - Living a double life:

00:59:37 - Life as a man

01:05:01 - Feeling unworthy of God

01:08:59 - 1.6million TikTok followers

01:16:24 - The Islam moment

01:19:33 - The God moment

01:22:43 - Surrendering her transgenderism

01:28:48 - Canceling the double mastectomy

01:31:40 - Giving God the burden

01:34:25 - Dressing as a woman again

01:36:09 - Trying to hide from her church

01:41:37 - LGBT in churches

01:48:50 - Haley’s courage

01:54:09 - How should churches handle this?

02:00:31 - Haley’s parents response

02:03:16 - Was it difficult to become a woman again?

02:05:17 - Haley’s LGBT friends

02:12:51 - Life post-transition

02:20:46 - Receiving hate online

02:23:05 - Advice for others: