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Why meeting and dating women frustrates you, how to be yourself around women, and the secret to having fulfilling experiences with women that very few men know.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- The #1 factor that makes a woman fall in love with you
- Where traditional self-improvement falls short in the dance with women
- How real fulfillment comes from the QUALITY of your encounters, not the quantity
- What it means to truly love a woman, and how to tell her (without tricks or antics)

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
04:30 Debunking myths about female-male attraction
07:30 What does a man who loves women look like?
12:29 Example: the energy of a man who loves women
25:25 Where traditional men's work helps — and where it kills — attraction
31:00 Women don't like men who are too rigid
42:30 The kind of power women want you to have over them
51:00 Story: how Zan helped Jordan unlock and express his love for the feminine

Do you love the spirit of women? And can you love that spirit more? Even beyond your better judgment?! Let us know with a comment.

As well as hit it hard in the gym, hustle your way to greater resource, and obsess over elements of ‘the game’… why not come out of the closet about what you’re biologically and spiritually designed to crave?

It would make everyone’s life a lot more… straightforward!

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
What kind of man is loved by women?

A man that first loves, like Scarface did, the money and the power?

A man in love with the length of his workouts and his well-sculpted abs?

A rational man with a tone of boldness and indifference, who sends slightly shorter texts to her than she sends to him?

How about a man who’s cleaning his communication, who reads feminist literature at the matcha café?

Now, what about a man with strong boundaries, who respects himself, who stands committed to some grand commitment, a brother to the brotherhood of brothers?

Mmmmeh. It's our sense that the women of the world can just about hold on.

And though the man with the fat stash is chased by some women… and the post-male male sure sits in a café with a lot of women in it… at its core the universe is unambiguous, direct, and clear:

A man who loves women is loved by women.

That’s it.

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship
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Think you don’t want to ‘commit’ to a relationship? This video will change the way you see commitment, show you how to love freely, and stop being so attached and jealous.

(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 42)

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- All women come and go, and no woman will be in your life forever: accepting that fact is the first step in having a relationship that’s meaningful
- Why being devoted to your partner’s happiness – above all else – is the recipe for a free and fulfilling relationship
- How to tell if you’re acting from a place of neediness and lack (which pushes women away) or giving women what they really want
- How to overcome jealousy and suspicion, and create an enjoyable time for you and a girl

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
03:57 Myths About Commitment
09:22 How Women Are Like Butterflies (A Woman Will Only Ever Be in Your Life for a Finite Period)
13:22 A Constraining Relationship vs. a Freeing Relationship
16:15 How to Snap Out of Jealousy & Suspicion
25:00 What Is Devotion?
31:55 The Test: Could You Be Devoted to a Woman Like This?
39:00 Remember This When Your Entitlement and Resentment Pop Up

Have you ever known someone (a woman or a man) that you could’ve used for your own gain, but didn’t, because you valued their happiness and well-being more?

Share your story in the comments below. Because loving freely is the only chance you have at loving for real.

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
The word ‘commitment’ gets thrown around a lot in the world of dating coaching.

Women hire coaches to help them find a man who will ‘actually’ commit, while men listen to coaches talk about the freedom that comes with commitment.

But as one Amorati member observed, the word ‘commitment’ hardly features in the Ars Amorata lexicon: Zan hardly uses it, and apparently it’s nowhere to be found in the Essentials masterclass.

It’s not without reason, Zan says. ‘Commitment’ has become a buzzword, kind of like ‘authenticity’ and ‘vulnerability’.

Devotion is a word that Zan prefers to champion.

What’s the difference?

Tune in to hear Zan and Jordan discuss their views on relationships that go beyond the kind of ‘commitment’ you’re familiar with, and actually foster more freedom and fulfillment for you and the woman you're with, rather than restrict it.

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips
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How to get women to chase you by being more mysterious: what makes women fantasize over guys, and tips for increasing your spirit of mystique.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- The inner workings of a woman’s mind and what makes her obsess over a man
- How to make her dream about you – not through tactics – but as something beneficent (how to actually give her the gift of dreaming about you)
- Books to read to make you more mysterious

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
03:55 Be a man that women dream about
09:50 Women experience of fantasy
12:05 A man’s obsession with mission breeds female obsession with him
17:10 Books that’ll make you more mysterious
23:15 Two practical questions to help you explore this topic more deeply

Have you ever met somebody who made you dream in a massive way? Think about it, and share your answer in the comments below. As you come to understand what makes you dream, you understand how to make a woman dream.

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
You work so hard to be the guy you think she wants, but in the end, she says “let’s just be friends.”

Again, you try to be the ideal man, and she tells you you’re sweet, but you don't get what you want.

You may or may not recognize it, but deep down, what you really want is for a woman to dream about you.

Nothing can replace the attraction force that is a woman’s natural longing for a man’s presence out of her own volition.

So, how can you be someone that a woman genuinely dreams about?

In today’s episode, Jordan and Zan continue their exploration from last week on the themes of masculine energy and mystique, and share practical insights that will 1. help you understand what makes women fantasize over you, and 2. guide you to start increasing your sense of mystery and desirability in the world, today.
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Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/gunslinger/
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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle ca

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