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Not Saving It For Later - Guiding Women Through Divorce & Beyond

Not Saving It For Later - Guiding Women Through Divorce & Beyond

Von: Hannah Hembree Bell
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 Hosted by Hannah Hembree Bell — Texas divorce lawyer, mom, and woman who’s been through it — Not Saving It For Later is the podcast that finally says out loud what everyone else is whispering about divorce, co-parenting, money, dating, and identity. This isn’t polite small talk about “new beginnings.” It’s real conversation about what it takes to tear down a life that no longer fits and build one that finally does.Hannah Hembree Bell Beziehungen Sozialwissenschaften
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  • Losing Yourself Trying To Be The Perfect Wife: How Good Women Get Lost In The Wrong Roles

    Losing Yourself Trying To Be The Perfect Wife: How Good Women Get Lost In The Wrong Roles
    Nov 25 2025

    Episode 2: Losing Yourself Trying To Be The Perfect Wife: How Good Women Get Lost In The Wrong Roles


    “You’re not broken. You’re beginning.” — Hannah Hembree Bell


    In this unfiltered conversation, Hannah sits down with her longtime friend and former client Amanda Diehl — a mom of two, twice divorced, and proof that sometimes the life you want is on the other side of the one that broke you.

    Together they talk about how good women end up in hard marriages, what shame really feels like, and how to rebuild your identity when the roles of wife and mom stop being enough.

    This is the episode every woman in “Divorceland” needs — whether you’re thinking about leaving, already in the thick of it, or trying to make sense of who you are after it’s over.


    💬 What You’ll Hear


    00:00 – The Manifesto

    Stop saving your life for later. Hannah shares why she started Not Saving It for Later and introduces Amanda — friend, client, and fellow comeback story.

    02:00 – The Church Girl & The Pastor’s Wife

    Amanda’s first marriage at 21 — faith, family expectations, and how doing “everything right” can still go wrong.

    06:00 – Identity in the Fire

    When being “the good wife” and “the perfect mom” becomes your whole personality — and what happens when that crumbles.

    12:00 – When You Think It’s Just a Rough Patch

    What it looked like behind closed doors — the loneliness, the unspoken resentment, and the cultural script that said just stay and pray harder.

    18:00 – Guilt, Shame, and the Wake-Up Call

    Amanda breaks down the difference between guilt and shame, the grief of losing a person who’s still alive, and the moment she realized her kids needed a happy mom more than an intact home.

    35:00 – The Second Marriage: Trying to “Fix” the Picture

    Why she rushed into remarriage, ignored red flags, and learned the hard way that you can’t rebuild peace on top of unhealed pain.

    57:00 – Let the Ground Rest

    Amanda’s lesson in slowing down — how stillness and healing can feel terrifying when chaos was your normal.

    1:07:00 – Know How You Like Your Eggs

    On rediscovering identity: why every woman needs to know who she is — and what she wants — before choosing her next partner.

    1:16:00 – Co-Parenting, Grace, and Gratitude

    How healing her first marriage helped her forgive herself — and why she’s genuinely grateful for both divorces.

    1:21:00 – Turning Pain into Purpose

    How Amanda joined the Hembree Bell Law Firm team and now helps women walk the same hard road she did.

    1:26:00 – Not Saving Joy for Later

    Hannah and Amanda talk about learning to use the “good spoon” — not saving joy, peace, or happiness for someday.


    💬 Mentioned in this Episode


    The Circle: Weekly live sessions with Hannah + the full My Confident Divorce course — myconfidentdivorce.com/circle

    (https://myconfidentdivorce.com/circle)

    OurFamilyWizard: The co-parenting app that keeps communication clean and court-ready — ourfamilywizard.com/HHB

    (https://ourfamilywizard.com/HHB)

    Hembree Bell Law Firm (Texas): hembreebell.com

    (https://hembreebell.com)


    🔗 Connect


    Follow Hannah on Instagram & TikTok → @hannahhembreebell

    (https://www.instagram.com/hannahhembreebell)


    Subscribe to the show → Not Saving It for Later: Guiding Women Through Divorce & Beyond


    ⚖️ Disclaimer


    This podcast and its contents are for educational and inspirational purposes only and are not legal, medical, or mental health advice. If you’re in Texas and need legal guidance, consult a licensed attorney. If you’re in danger, call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233).
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  • Later Is A Lie: Stop Saving Your Life For Someday

    Later Is A Lie: Stop Saving Your Life For Someday
    Nov 18 2025
    “You are worthy because you exist. Later is a lie.” — Hannah Hembree BellThis first episode of Not Saving It For Later sets the tone for everything to come. It’s for women who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, on the other side, or simply stuck in the “medium suck” of life—tired of pretending everything’s fine and ready to start again. Hannah shares why she started the show, what it means to stop waiting for “later,” and how to build a life that feels like yours again. From the “good spoon” story to the Bitter vs. Better compass, she gets real about divorce, identity, and choosing joy now—not someday.Join The Circle (Hannah live weekly + full My Confident Divorce course): myconfidentdivorce.com/circleOurFamilyWizard (co‑parenting app partner perks): ourfamilywizard.com/HHBHembree Bell Law Firm (Texas): hembreebell.com00:00 – Opening Manifesto: Stop saving your life for later. Hannah’s why for the show, who it’s for, and the promise: straight talk, zero fake‑empowerment BS.02:21 – The Good Spoon: How a kitchen drawer pause exposed a lifetime of putting joy on layaway—and why “use the good spoon” became a movement.04:43 – Later Is a Lie: “May death be ever your advisor.” The ticking‑clock mindset, Robert Frost’s two roads, and why you can’t wait to be “more worthy.”06:27 – Welcome to Divorceland: The scary‑carnival metaphor; finding your footing when you didn’t ask for this ride. Cussing disclaimer, honesty guarantee.08:44 – Capacity & Joy Buckets: From thimble → bathtub → ocean. Growing your capacity for good in tiny, repeatable stretches.15:51 – Not Broken—Beginning: The “Is this it?” season, the cost of pretending, and permission to want a bigger life.18:16 – Worthiness as Baseline: You are worthy because you exist. Full stop. (And what that changes.)24:51 – Bitter or Better? The North Star for every decision during divorce. British Rowing’s one‑question method → your filter.27:03 – Text You Shouldn’t Send: Applying Bitter/Better to the “X‑factor” pop‑off text. Court‑proofing your communication.29:20 – Pro‑Woman ≠ Anti‑Man: Why this room centers women without bashing men; calling in healthy masculinity.31:36 – Receipts, Tools, and Trials: When the kids didn’t live with her first; evidence, therapy, Divorce Poison, and long‑game strategy.33:57 – Origin Story: East Texas to law school; three babies back‑to‑back; learning to want more.36:26 – Turning 30 on Facebook: “This is your real life.” The not‑a‑dress‑rehearsal moment that changed the trajectory.38:51 – Leaving Badly vs. Leaving Well: Why preparation matters; when settling now means war later; learning the hard way.41:15 – My Confident Divorce (MCD): Course + Circle bundle; go‑bag checklists, custody prep, and evidence systems—so you don’t lose kids, money, or sanity.43:29 – Carry Your Own Groceries: The dream that became the book: you can handle your life.45:08 – Season Preview: Mediation, body and identity, woo + practical, divorce glow‑up, money power.47:13 – The Confession: “I want more.” Why wanting more threatens systems—and why we’re doing it anyway.49:32 – Joy Is the Point: People full of life are contagious. Let it rub off.51:10 – Radical Responsibility: Viktor Frankl, the space between stimulus and response, and dropping the villain/victim script.53:00 – Closing Charge: You are one to three decisions away from a different life. We’re not saving it for later.Instagram & TikTok: @hannahhembreebellThis episode and these notes are for educational and inspirational purposes only and are not legal, medical, or mental health advice. If you’re in Texas and need legal advice, consult a licensed attorney who knows your facts. If you’re in danger, call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800‑799‑SAFE (7233).Host: Hannah Hembree Bell — Texas divorce lawyer, mom, founder of Hembree Bell Law, creator of My Confident Divorce.Production: Authentic Exposure StudioSponsors: OurFamilyWizard.
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    53 Min.
  • Season 1 TRAILER

    Season 1 TRAILER
    Nov 14 2025

    I’m Hannah Hembree Bell — divorce lawyer, divorced mom, and woman who rebuilt from the wreckage. This is Not Saving It For Later, the podcast guiding women through divorce and beyond.
    Launching November 18th — because later is a lie.
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    1 Min.
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