In this episode of New Dad Order, the hosts sit down for an honest, wide-ranging conversation about the state of America, global power, and the narratives shaping public opinion. What starts with a brief discussion on the NFL and leadership quickly evolves into deeper topics surrounding immigration enforcement, media influence, artificial intelligence, and U.S. foreign policy.

A central focus of the episode is ICE operations within the United States, including recent activity in Louisiana and Minneapolis. Through personal stories and firsthand observations, the hosts explore the fear and uncertainty felt by U.S. citizens and legal residents—particularly within Latino communities—when immigration enforcement appears indiscriminate. While acknowledging the need for law enforcement to address real threats, the conversation emphasizes a clear principle: when innocent people are harmed or detained, it’s one too many.

The discussion also examines how modern media shapes perception, often prioritizing emotional narratives and political division over context and facts. From viral headlines to symbolic “poster-child” storytelling, the hosts question whether outrage has become more profitable than truth. They also break down how “whataboutism” and tribal politics shut down productive conversation rather than encouraging understanding.

On the global stage, the episode touches on Venezuela, Nicolás Maduro, AI-generated videos, and online military simulations, raising questions about U.S. power, geopolitical interests, and the role of money, oil, and influence in international conflicts. Rather than offering simple answers, the hosts challenge listeners to think critically about why certain actions are taken—and who benefits from them.

The episode closes with reflections on parenting, civic responsibility, and intellectual honesty. Rejecting blind loyalty to political parties or public figures, the hosts stress the importance of questioning authority, seeking facts, and teaching the next generation how to think independently in an increasingly polarized world.

This episode isn’t about picking sides — it’s about asking better questions.

✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors

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In this powerful episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive into why New Year’s resolutions so often fail—and what actually makes fathers, husbands, and families better over time. Instead of empty promises made on January 1st, this episode focuses on discipline, presence, and leadership inside the home.Parfait shares how his biggest life change didn’t happen because of a New Year’s resolution. In August of 2024, he decided to take control of his health, losing over 25 pounds, working out consistently, and rebuilding his discipline. That decision—made in the middle of the year—proved that lasting change happens when a man commits, not when a calendar changes. The same principle applies to fatherhood.A major theme of the episode is leading by example. Kids don’t become who we tell them to be—they become who they see. When a father shows discipline, consistency, and effort every day, that becomes a child’s definition of what “normal” looks like. The conversation also turns to one of the biggest challenges modern dads face: being present. Both Ray and Parfait admit that phones, distractions, and mental fatigue often steal attention away from their kids. Even when a child is telling a simple story about recess or a kickball game, that moment matters. Those small conversations build trust, and that trust is what allows kids to come to their parents when life gets harder later on.Another important focus is creating real family time. Ray shares how rediscovering family game nights over the holidays reminded him how powerful simple connection can be. Playing cards, laughing, competing, and talking creates memories that last far longer than scrolling on a screen or watching TV together.The episode also highlights the importance of emotional availability and maturity. Being able to say “I was wrong,” to apologize, and to listen without defensiveness builds stronger relationships between parents and children. Finally, Ray explains why it’s critical for kids to feel safe coming to their parents no matter what. Whether they’ve made a mistake or are in a dangerous situation, knowing they can call home without fear may be the difference between safety and tragedy. ✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

Navy veteran and father of three Charles Lyle shares his deeply personal story of resilience, faith, and rebuilding life after trauma, loss, and military service. From growing up in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina to serving as a Navy airman, Charles reveals how adversity shaped both the man and the father he has become.Charles describes how Katrina destroyed his childhood in Bay St. Louis, Mississippi, forcing his family to evacuate and permanently uprooting his life. The storm didn’t just destroy homes — it fractured friendships, routines, and stability. That early trauma later fueled his drive to compete in football, eventually leading him to play college football at Pearl River Community College and East Mississippi Community College, where he played under Coach Buddy Stevens just before the Netflix series Last Chance U began.After leaving football, Charles chose a harder path: military service. He joined the U.S. Navy, becoming an aviation loadmaster flying missions across the globe on C-130 aircraft, transporting cargo and people to places like Japan, South Korea, Guam, and Papua New Guinea. While the Navy gave him discipline and purpose, Charles reveals the harsh truth about what happens when veterans leave the service. Despite years of service, he faced financial collapse, and job rejection while trying to support his growing family.At the same time, Charles was navigating unimaginable grief. His father spent 47 days in the hospital before passing away after complications from diabetes and amputation. While grieving, Charles was also betrayed by a business partner, losing his ownership stake in a construction company he helped build — a moment that nearly broke him emotionally and financially.Today, Charles has rebuilt his life working in construction and roofing, helping families recover after hurricanes and disasters — a fitting mission for someone who once lost everything to one. As a husband and father of three, he now channels his past pain into purpose, raising his children with discipline, love, and unwavering faith in God.Get in Touch with Charles:TikTok-Charles_RoofsFacebook-@charleslyleFacebook-@choicevineroofingWebsite-Choicevineroofing.com ✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order