What does it actually mean when you say, “I don’t feel like myself anymore”?

Do you need to change something—or are you just restless? Do you really want another career? Should you start the new project? Remodel the house? Get serious about your fitness again? And why do decisions that once felt exciting suddenly feel so much scarier when there’s retirement, health insurance, money, relationships and a whole life you’ve already built to consider?

At 58, I’ve made some pretty damn big changes in my life. I’ve left relationships, given up homes, moved, started over and even moved to another country.

So why does change feel so intimidating now?

In this episode of The Amber Dea Lux Show, I’m not giving you five steps to reinvent your life. I’m talking this one through right along with you.

We’re getting into career changes, new projects, fitness when your body doesn’t always cooperate, our strange urge to remodel our surroundings when we feel restless, other people’s opinions, acting our age—whatever the hell that means—and the difference between listening to advice and needing everyone’s approval.

And maybe the question isn’t really, “Who am I?”

Maybe it’s:

What makes me feel like me—and is there enough of that in the life I’m living?

This is the Stay Sexy Standard in real life. Not staying young. Not blowing everything up in the name of reinvention. Staying involved in your own damn life while being brave enough to change the parts that no longer fit.

Maybe restlessness isn’t always a problem that needs fixing.

Maybe it’s worth listening to.

🎙️ The Amber Dea Lux Show — Episode 16: I Don’t Feel Like Myself Anymore

Stay strong. Stay curious. Stay confident. Stay adventurous. Stay you.

And always remember… stay sexy. 💋

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