Happy New Year, guys!

In this episode I talk about old patterns, why they resurface, why you keep dating the same person, just different body and name, how these moments test our growth, and what healing really looks like in real life. I share my personal experiences with emotionally unavailable men, anxious attachment, and the moment I finally understood that attraction does not equal alignment.

This year isn't just about new goals and vision boards; it's also about new responses. Because if the year changes but the patterns don't, nothing really changes

Just because something or someone familiar shows up again doesn't mean you're meant to go back. Sometimes it's simply life asking you, "Do you still see yourself the same way?"

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December romance is often romanticised as fun and flirtatious, but for many, the festive season comes with anxiety, disappointment, ghosting, and hard relationship truths.

In this episode I unpack the realities of December romance: the unspoken rules, the festive personas we adopt, and why so many connections formed in December struggle to survive January. From premediated flings driven by fear of loneliness, to being the partner who doesn't get chosen for the holiday, this episode explores how scarcity mindset, alcohol, expectations, and festive pressure shape our dating decisions.

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We all know December has its own romantic ecosystem...LOL

1. Some people disappear from their relationships
2. Some get ghosted
3. Others prefer flings over anything serious
4. Some actually find love in December

Before I record the next episode on December Romance, I want to hear your do's and don'ts, your experiences, lessons, chaos, December drama, wisdom about December relationships and festive flings.

I'd love to hear from all sexualities, all genders, EVERYONE. Whether you are married, single, or in a long-term relationship, I want to hear your experiences.

You can submit your answers through IG stories (@fromagirlsgirl or @didi_masita) or TikTok stories (@didi_masita).

Your responses will be grouped into themes and shaped into a community-led episode.

Let's turn the last episode of the year into a mini "research study" together

RESPONSES WILL REMAIN CONFIDENTIAL