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A Prayer for Being on the Losing Team

Good Father,

Thank you for the simple joy

of watching our kids play games and sports—

their growing bodies learning to

sprint toward a goal,

scuffle for a ball,

pass to a friend,

and be a part of a team.

Sports are often their first taste of winning

and, for my child in this season… losing.

I know this experience will open

the door to character building

that would not happen otherwise.

Losing can cultivate persistence and grit,

resilience and empathy toward others.

However, this sort of heart stretching

can be hard to watch

and even harder for my child to learn.

Would you help me meet

them in their disappointment

with wisdom and care?

Help me know when to encourage

them and when to stay silent,

letting lessons reveal themselves

naturally to my child rather than turning

every loss into a lecture

about hard work or character growth.

I ask, Lord, for your gentleness to

permeate their thoughts.

Let them be kind to themselves,

graceful to their teammates,

and respectful toward coaches and opponents.

And when their frustration spills over

into a bad attitude, sadness, or anger,

give me your grace-filled patience to gently

guide them back to humility and confidence.

Redirect my thoughts as well, Lord,

when I am tempted to see my own worth

through my child’s successes and failures.

May I always care more about their heart

and my relationship with them

than about performance or appearances.

And in your love, Lord, I ask for

some wins to come their way, so they

can feel the satisfaction of working toward a goal,

of bonding together with teammates,

of celebrating something fun with friends.

Regardless of outcomes,

I give thanks for this experience,

for the great gift of sport,

of play, of teamwork.

Amen.

Written by Alli Dahlgren
produced by Dan Gummel

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