Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships

On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:13 First Live Show Excitement

01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome

02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions

07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons

10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences

21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love

26:07 Lessons from My Marriage

27:11 The Importance of Communication

28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships

32:21 The Role of Accountability

35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections

37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards

48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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Mastering Emotional Intelligence in Fatherhood with Jason Schnitzer | The Dear Son, Show

Join us for a profound episode of 'The Dear Son, Show' as host D Johns engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Jason Schnitzer. You’ll explore the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and how previous life experiences shape who we become as men and fathers. Jason shares his own journey from aspiring Major League Baseball player to emotional intelligence coach, offering invaluable insights on regulating emotions, effective communication, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're a father, soon-to-be father, or simply interested in self-growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Don’t miss it! Remember to subscribe and share your favorite part in the comments below.

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show

00:17 Guest Introduction: Jason Schnitzer

01:28 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

04:40 Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences

07:56 Marriage and Personal Growth

22:12 Coaching and Self-Reflection

30:35 Reflecting on Near-Death Experiences and Fear

31:09 Parenting Challenges and Passing on Wisdom

31:53 The Impact of Social Dynamics and Shame

33:38 Navigating Fear and Emotional Suppression

35:49 The Struggle with Failure and Identity

38:05 Overcoming Past Failures and Embracing New Challenges

39:39 The Journey from Baseball to Personal Growth

46:25 Helping Others Navigate Emotional Challenges

54:09 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

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Dear Son: Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself - Meaningful Conversations for Men

On this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a dynamic and heartfelt discussion on the theme 'Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself.' They delve into personal and family life, sharing how they balance personal growth with maintaining their true selves. The episode covers a broad range of topics including the importance of physical and mental health, navigating relationships, parenting strategies, and maintaining individuality in the face of societal and personal pressures. With an emphasis on real-life experiences and personal accountability, this conversation is designed to inspire and provide practical advice to both men and women on their individual journeys. Tune in for an engaging, humorous, and insightful episode.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:32 Catching Up on Life

01:17 School and Future Plans

02:34 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Don't Lose Yourself

03:14 Personal Reflections and Podcast Journey

07:08 The Importance of Seeking Help

13:18 Parenting Challenges and Approaches

20:57 Teaching Life Lessons to Young Men

26:13 A Father's Awareness and Involvement

27:23 Balancing Work and Family Life

28:13 The Importance of Being Present

30:21 Navigating Relationships and Expectations

32:25 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

37:34 The Impact of Change on Identity

42:48 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk

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