This Wednesday Quickie goes places.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a real, unfiltered conversation about how to set up a gang bang — not the porn version, but the actual real-life logistics, planning, communication, and consent that go into making a fantasy like this happen.

Pris opens up about a long-standing bucket-list fantasy and makes one thing crystal clear: this experience is about her pleasure, her comfort, and her rules. From hand-selecting participants to making sure everyone understands expectations, boundaries, and consent, this episode breaks down why fantasies take way more work than people realize.

Adam plays the role of curious fly-on-the-wall, asking the real questions most people are thinking but never say out loud — flakiness, performance anxiety, group dynamics, recording consent, and whether everyone involved can actually handle the environment.

And just when you think the episode couldn't get more interesting, the conversation takes a turn into lifestyle storytime as Adam and Pris recount a recent swinger party where they discovered something entirely new: ball stretching weights. What started as parallel play turned into a candid (and hilarious) breakdown of how these accessories work, why some couples love them, and how curiosity fuels ongoing exploration in the lifestyle.

This episode is equal parts sexy, funny, educational, and brutally honest — covering:

• Why real-life fantasies require planning, vetting, and communication
• The difference between porn expectations and lived experiences
• Consent, comfort, and setting clear intentions
• Exhibitionism, performance pressure, and group dynamics
• How curiosity keeps long-term non-monogamous relationships exciting

If you've ever wondered how fantasies actually come together — or why most of them never do — this episode pulls back the curtain.

Listener discretion advised. This show is raw, real, and absolutely not PG.

If you've ever seen photos of adults-only lifestyle cruises or hotel takeovers and thought, "That looks incredible… but also a little intimidating," this episode is for you.

Adam & Pris sit down with Claudia and Pepe Aguirre of LLV Club (Luxury Lifestyle Vacations) to pull back the curtain on what luxury lifestyle travel actually looks like — from cruises and hotel takeovers to immersive, adults-only experiences around the world.

LLV Club is known for blending upscale travel, ethical non-monogamy, education, and real community. You're not just booking a vacation — you're stepping into an experience designed around comfort, consent, connection, and choice.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What LLV Club really is and how it works
• Why first-time lifestyle travelers don't need to be nervous
• How community is built before, during, and after trips
• The difference between river cruises, ocean cruises, and hotel takeovers
• What makes these experiences feel safe, structured, and welcoming
• Why many people come for the fun — but stay for the friendships

Claudia and Pepe also share how their background in hospitality shaped LLV Club, why consent and comfort come first, and how these trips attract respectful, successful, open-minded adults from all over the world.

Whether you're lifestyle-curious, travel-obsessed, or just ready for a vacation that actually feels like an escape, this episode breaks it all down without the hype or pressure.

LLV Club Website: https://www.llvclub.com
Email: contact@llvclub.com
Phone: +1 (857) 442-4265

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Welcome to Swinger 101 — the episode we wish every curious couple listened to before jumping into the lifestyle.

In this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris break down the real basics of swinging in a way only Beyond Monogamy can: honest, funny, raw, and actually helpful. If you're brand new, lifestyle-curious, or still Googling questions at 2am, this episode is for you.

We cover what swinging really is (and what it absolutely is not), how it differs from open relationships and polyamory, and why swinging is primarily a sexually-focused branch of ethical non-monogamy.

From there, we get into the stuff newbies are usually too scared to ask out loud:

• Do you have to be married to swing?
• Do swingers date or is it more casual?
• How do you even bring this up to your partner?
• What if one person wants it more than the other?
• What boundaries should you talk about first?
• Rules vs boundaries — what's the difference?
• How do you deal with jealousy when it shows up?
• Can you say no… even mid-experience?

We also walk through what actually happens at swinger clubs (spoiler: it's not an Eyes Wide Shut orgy), how privacy is protected, what first nights usually look like, and why watching is always okay.

Adam opens up about anxiety, nerves, and learning how to finally find his "no," while Pris talks honestly about jealousy, communication, and why being upfront saves everyone time and emotional energy.

We also cover:

• Soft swap vs full swap
• Approaching other couples without being awkward
• Apps, websites, and finding community safely
• Verification, fake profiles, and red flags
• STI conversations, testing, and condom expectations
• Discretion, careers, family, and real-world consequences

This episode is about doing the lifestyle intentionally, ethically, and without wrecking your relationship.

If you're new — welcome. If you're seasoned — you might still learn something. And if you've been thinking about swinging but don't know where to start… this is it.

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