In this episode of the Avoiding Average podcast, host Susan Gates sits down with confidence coach and spiritual leader Nicole Rogers, the creator of the Zen Red Method. Nicole shares her powerful story of losing everything, rediscovering her authentic self, and rebuilding her life through confidence, presence, and nervous system regulation.

Nicole dives into why confidence isn’t about faking it until you make it—it’s about embodying your wholeness. She explains how tools for nervous system regulation, emotional awareness, and forgiveness unlock the ability to manifest your goals and step into your true power.

From embracing anger as a teacher to learning self-forgiveness, Nicole offers a roadmap for self-discovery and personal growth. If you’re ready to break free from self-doubt and step into a more confident, authentic version of yourself, this conversation is for you.Nikól Rogers is a confidence coach, best-selling author, spiritual teacher and speaker who founded The ZenRed Method in 2015 to teach Influencers, professional artists, speakers, and presenters how to be fearless and ​embody a Powerful Presence, connect deeply with their audience, and stand out from the crowd. As a result, her clients create free of stress in their projects, and feel confident and secure in their work. Her clients have published books, sold out events and concerts, created Solo shows, spoken on large stages, and created award winning businesses that feed and nourish them. She can be found at nikolrogers.com and on Instagram at @Nikol_Rogers

Her book, 13, can be found at 13thebook.com. If you'd like her free video training, Reclaim Your Confidence, find it at www.nikolrogers.com/how-to-reclaim-your-confidence/

Learn more about Susan Gates and Avoiding Average at www.avoidingaverage.com

In this episode of the Avoiding Average podcast, host Susan Gates guides Rebecca (Bex) Jones through an in-depth astrocartography and astrology reading. Together, they uncover how her Libra Sun, Libra Rising, and Gemini Moon shape her communication, relationships, and creative path.

Susan highlights the impact of stelliums in Bex’s chart, family dynamics on self-expression, and how Chiron’s placement reveals wounds around trust and relationships. The conversation explores themes of fairness, personal growth, and the importance of community support on the journey of self-discovery.

Bex shares her spiritual awakening in London, insights from her relationships, and the ways different locations have influenced her career, creativity, and emotional intelligence. This episode is a powerful demonstration of how astrocartography can illuminate your soul’s path and guide your personal and spiritual evolution.

If you’re curious about how astrology and astrocartography can support your own transformation, this episode is a must-listen.

Bex Jones is a tarot reader and psychic medium based in London, England. She also hosts the Confessions of a Tarot Reader podcast. She can be found at www.instagram.com/bex_tarot

About Susan Gates:
Susan Gates is a certified Life & Soul Coach, Astrologer, and Travel Astrology expert helping clients navigate life transitions, align with their authentic selves, and create a life of freedom and fulfillment. Through her transformational coaching and astrocartography readings, she guides people to places—both within and in the world—that awaken their soul’s potential.

Work with Susan:
✨ Book your astrocartography consultation www.avoidingaverage.com/travel-astrology⁠✨ Learn more and apply for the Soulo Pilgrimage www.avoidingaverage.com/soulo-pilgrimage✨Follow Susan on Instagram www.instagram.com/soulcoachsusan

A business marketing coach will often use social media as a strategy for expanding reach - but what about using podcasts, and more specifically, podcast guesting for lead generation?

In this episode of the Avoiding Average podcast, host Susan Gates speaks with Candace Dudley, a podcast guest coach who helps entrepreneurs grow their influence through guesting and podcasting. Candace shares her journey from teaching to entrepreneurship, highlighting how podcasting became a tool for networking, business growth, and authentic connection.

Together, they explore the importance of mindset in podcasting, how to avoid burnout, and why authenticity is key when showing up as a podcast guest or host. Listeners will learn practical strategies for landing aligned guest spots, preparing for interviews, building trust with audiences, and maintaining consistency without sacrificing energy.

If you’re ready to use podcasting to grow your business, strengthen your personal brand, or expand your network, this conversation is packed with actionable insights.

Candace can be reached through her website or social media. Her podcast, Podcasting Mentor: Better Brave can be found on Apple Podcasts, linked below. https://www.candacedudley.com/https://www.instagram.com/candacedudley/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcasting-mentor-better-brave/id1580454311Free Resource: Podcast Setup Guide: https://stan.store/CandaceDudley/p/get-my-podcast-setup-guide-free-now

Learn more about Susan Gates and book astrocartography readings at www.avoidingaverage.com.