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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.

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Welcome to the only podcast exploring the messiness, awesomeness, of masculinity of being a gay man over 40. Each episode is about sparking idea, addressing challenges, and diving deep into what it looks like to be a vulnerable gay guy. We talk about the stuff us gay guys have a hard time talking about, man-to-man: masculinity, sex, careers, our bodies, parenting, sexuality, failures, success, and aging, relationships, coming out - nothing is off limits. 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk is the revamped version of 40 Plus: Real Men. Real Talk podcast and is a short format podcast that's easy to digest. We take deep dives - one topic at a time - digging up the truth of what it’s like to be a gay man, instead of some contrived expectation of masculinity. We’re reclaiming manhood and our masculinity by facing our fears, making bold moves, and living life without apologies. Join us, but you've got to drop your BS, forget posturing, and be ready to explore the comical dysfunctions of our lives as gay men 40+ years of age!Copyright 2026 Rick Clemons Hygiene & gesundes Leben Sozialwissenschaften
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  • Future-Proof Your Gay Self: Dwight Allen O’Neal on Reinvention, Self-Love, and Knowing When To Evolve
    Oct 2 2026
    Twenty years in the beauty industry teaches you a few things about reinvention. Dwight Allen O'Neal learned them the hard way and then wrote the book. Death of the Field Team is his unflinching look at what happens when industries change and the people in them refuse to. But this conversation goes deeper than career strategy. Dwight joins Rick to talk about what it actually means to "protect your human," love yourself without apology, and build something that is authentically yours when everything around you is shifting. He also shares the story behind his new business, Christelle on Pine, named for his parents. This one is personal and it earns it. Key Takeaways:
    • What future-proofing yourself actually means and why most people wait too long to do it
    • Why authenticity is the only sustainable strategy in the age of AI and social media
    • How Dwight arrived at genuine self-love at 42 and what changed when he did
    • The meditation insight that reframed everything: you were sent here to protect yourself
    • Why self-care is psychological protection, not selfishness - protect your human
    • The story behind Christelle on Pine and what it means to build something in honor of where you came from

    About Dwight

    Dwight Allen O’Neal is a beauty industry leader, award-winning filmmaker, and brand strategist with more than 20 years of experience in retail education, field sales, and consumer growth.

    Throughout his career, he has helped both emerging and established beauty brands— including Josie Maran, Pattern Beauty, Bumble and bumble, Briogeo, and Octavia Morgan— drive sustainable growth through strategic retail partnerships, education, and consumer engagement. His expertise spans leading retailers including Sephora, Ulta Beauty, Amazon, Nordstrom, Macy's, Bluemercury, Sally Beauty, and JCPenney Beauty.

    As the Founder and CEO of Christell On Pine Group, Dwight advises founders and executive teams on building brands through education, authentic relationships, and people-first leadership.

    His latest book, “Death of The Field Team: The Beauty Industry’s Biggest Mistake,” is the newest addition to his collection of nonfiction titles. Exploring the evolving beauty industry's shift away from field education, it argues that the industry's greatest competitive advantage has always been knowledgeable people, in-store expertise, and meaningful customer connection.

    Connect With Dwight Website Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community
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  • Eric Hodgson on LGBTQ+ Travel, Safe Spaces, and Using Gay Vacations to Connect
    Oct 9 2026
    There is something that happens when a group of gay men travel together on a ship where everyone belongs. Walls come down. Generations connect. History gets personal. Eric Hodgson is the founder of Outbound, an LGBTQ+ travel company that builds exclusive small-ship cruises and intimate river journeys designed to do exactly that. He joins Rick to talk about why size matters in travel, what it means to move through the world in a genuinely safe space, and what gay men over 40 discover about themselves and their community when they stop touring and start connecting. From Egypt to Amsterdam to Sydney's 50th Mardi Gras in 2028, this episode will make you want to book something. Key Takeaways:
    • Why small ships and intimate settings create connection that larger cruises cannot
    • How Outbound builds genuine safe spaces and what that actually requires from travel partners and crew
    • What gay men learn about their own history when they travel to LGBTQ+ sites worldwide
    • The power of intergenerational connection that happens organically on group LGBTQ+ travel
    • What Eric witnessed in Egypt around same-sex history and the gender-fluid god Hapi
    • What is coming up including the British Isles, Mediterranean, and Sydney Mardi Gras 2028

    About Eric Eric Hodgson is a travel expert, entrepreneur, and the founder of OUTbound, a travel company dedicated to creating unforgettable experiences for the LGBTQ+ community around the world. With a passion for exploring new destinations and bringing people together, Eric has helped build OUTbound into a community-driven travel brand where guests can see the world, make lifelong friendships, and feel completely at home while doing it. From sailing through Europe and the Mediterranean to discovering destinations across Asia, Australia, and beyond, Eric brings a unique combination of travel expertise, curiosity, and a genuine love of connecting people with the places they visit. What sets Eric apart is his belief that travel should be about more than simply checking destinations off a list... it should be about the people you meet, the memories you create, and the sense of community you take home with you. Through OUTbound, he has created a welcoming space where LGBTQ+ travelers can experience the world together, surrounded by fellow travelers who share that same spirit of adventure. Whether he's planning an extraordinary itinerary, discovering the next great destination, or simply sharing stories with fellow OUTbounders, Eric is passionate about making travel more inclusive, meaningful, and fun... and encouraging people to get out there and see the world, together. Connect With Eric Website Instagram Facebook Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community
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  • Hate Mail, Death Threats, and Kids’ Books: Greg Howard on Why Representation Still Matters
    Oct 16 2026

    Book bans are back, and children's author Greg Howard is fighting to give queer kids something most gay men over 40 never got: proof, on the page, that they weren't alone. Greg writes YA and middle grade fiction confronting grief, identity, and found family, work that's earned him hate mail and death threats alongside letters from readers who call him the first person they ever came out to.

    He walked away from a thriving prior career to do it, and he won't back down from the political pressure trying to erase that work. If you spent your own childhood without a single story that reflected who you actually were, this episode is about what that cost you, and what you can still do about it now.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Discover why waiting to feel safe to pursue your passion leads you to miss out on living.
    • Learn the surprising common need for safe gay spaces for both youth and aging gay men.
    • Realize the positive impact walking away from a career that pays can have, you and the world.
    • Understand why standing your ground against people trying to erase you is still the right fight.
    • See why gay life in a story, a room, a community, isn't optional. It's necessary to be human.

    About Greg

    Greg Howard was born and raised in the South Carolina Lowcountry where his love of stories blossomed at a young age. Originally set on becoming a songwriter, Greg followed that dream to Nashville, Tennessee, where he spent years producing the music of others before eventually returning to his childhood passion for writing stories.

    Greg’s critically acclaimed debut middle-grade novel, The Whispers, was nominated for an Edgar Award and was named a Best Book of 2019 by Advocate Magazine. His second middle-grade novel, Middle School’s a Drag, You Better Werk! is an Amazon Teacher’s Pick. His third middle-grade novel, The Visitors, was a 2022 New York Public Library Best Book. Also the author of the young adult novel Social Intercourse, Greg’s newest middle-grade book, The Travelers, a twisty time-travel adventure, is available now. Greg writes for and about LGBTQ youth, creating the kind of books he wishes he’d had access to as a young reader growing up gay in the American South. When he’s not writing books, Greg enjoys traveling, reading, hiking, and spending time with friends. He lives in Nashville with his ridiculously adorable Mini Aussiedoodle, Sadie. Connect With Eric Website Get Gregs Books Instagram Facebook Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community
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    43 min
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