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In this gentle bonus episode, Dr. Allison Sucamele offers a compassionate reminder many of us quietly need to hear: you are allowed to change your mind.

We’re often taught that consistency defines character, that staying the course proves strength. But what happens when growth reshapes who you are and what once fit no longer feels aligned? This episode explores the psychology behind why changing direction can feel so uncomfortable, from our brain’s need for certainty to the grief that can accompany personal evolution.

Through a reflective and reassuring lens, Dr. Sucamele reframes change not as failure, but as information - evidence that you’ve learned, expanded, and become someone new. Together, we examine the courage it takes to release outdated identities, re-choose your path consciously, and honor your present self without betraying your past.

If you’re standing at a crossroads, questioning a decision, or feeling the quiet pull toward something different, this episode serves as a permission slip to listen inward. Growth is not betrayal - it’s alignment.

Disclaimer:
The Lemon Tree Coaching Podcast is intended for educational and reflective purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care, diagnosis, or treatment. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please consider reaching out to a licensed mental health professional or someone you trust for support. If you are in crisis or need immediate help, you can call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.), or visit 988lifeline.org for confidential, 24/7 support. If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 or your local emergency services.