Mate
Become the Man Women Want
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Geoffrey Miller PhD
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Whether they conducted their research in life or in the lab, experts Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller have spent the last 20+ years learning what women really want from their men, why they want it, and how men can deliver those qualities.
The short answer: become the best version of yourself possible, then show it off. It sounds simple, but it's not. If it were, Tinder would just be the stuff you use to start a fire. Becoming your best self requires honesty, self-awareness, hard work and a little help.
Through their website and podcasts, Max and Miller have already helped over one million guys take their first steps toward Ms. Right. They have collected all of their findings in Mate, an evidence-driven, seriously funny playbook that will teach you to become a more sexually attractive and romantically successful man, the right way: No "seduction techniques," No moralizing, No bullshit. Just honest, straightforward talk about the most ethical, effective way to pursue the win-win relationships you want with the women who are best for you.
Much of what they've discovered will surprise you, some of it will not, but all of it is important and often misunderstood. So listen up, and stop being stupid!
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"Every single page has interesting information. A great resource."—Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline radio show and Dr. Drew On Call on HLN
"The most unexpected book of the year: World-famous evolutionary psychologist meets world-famous drunken asshole. The result: A sober, solid, necessary, and authoritative guide not just to dating, but to becoming a better man."—Neil Strauss, author of New York Times bestseller The Game and The Truth
"I wish I could teleport a copy of Mate back in time and give it to my 13-year-old self, and then instruct him to read it once a year for the next decade."—Jake Seliger, author and founder of The Story's Story
"From the very beginning, this book plays it straight. It's about becoming a better person and creating positive, fulfilling relationships. This isn't a book with a predatory, pickup artist mindset."—Aubrey Marcus, founder of Onnit Fitness and the Aubrey Marcus Podcast
"A fascinating look at mating and dating from the perspective of a guy who gained fame for doing the former.... Miller's academic influence gives it some much needed credibility."—Adam Kovac, AskMen.com
Twenty years ago, this would have been a perfect book. Today, however, it's a will-o'-the-wisp leading your dating life to an untimely demise in a random swamp. This is due to three reasons:
First, Feminism has made women less feminine than ever, and instead much more masculine. As a result, they are way less concerned with their safety, and instead are more goal-oriented and calculate coldly. A man who makes them feel safe nowadays is considered boring, and self-control and emotional maturity are seen as killjoys. Why have a dull, stable relationship for decades, when you can have exciting drama for a few weeks? This is unless the woman is around 30, which is the age where you will have to watch out for excessive niceties followed by a punctured condom. Rest assured though that if you are a guy who is hard to manipulate, these are not the women who will be interested in you. Again, they are coldly calculating. It's either the party years, where they chase the hot guys they can never keep for long, or the adulting years where they need some weak, but hard-working guy who pulls in the $$$.
Second, Consumerism has taught women that everything is discardable and only exists for their personal enjoyment. Don't assume they will ever treat you with genuine appreciation. If they have had one or two bad experiences with men, they will just consider all men to be disposable fools, who may however be good for some entertainment or financing. They see males as Amazon items that you only look at if they have at least 4.5 stars, and that you can send back with no questions asked.
Third, Social media has hypervisualized and de-socialized everything. In our current age, most women can't even talk normally to strangers, and flirting is a thing of the distant past. Instead, men are now valued by their looks - bulkiness, height, low body fat, facial geometry, hair, eyes, skin color now trump honesty, resourcefulness, kindness, generosity and even humor. If the guy is hot enough, even terrible jokes are funny to a woman.
Here's my advice: if you want a girlfriend, go set up a tent in a gym and don't come out until you look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club. In the current Western culture, evolutionary biology is some kind of relic that, sure, is fun to learn about. But it doesn't offer much guidance, because human behavior is vastly shaped by culture.
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