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Strangers

A Memoir of Marriage

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Strangers

By: Belle Burden
Narrated by: Belle Burden
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INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • “Burden’s searing, probing memoir explores . . . what she learned about intimacy and her own spirit.”—People​​

“A beautifully written instant classic. Strangers is gripping and heartbreaking and a must-read for every wife—and husband.”—Graydon Carter

“Asks us to examine life’s most perplexing questions: Can we see the invisible fault lines in a marriage or truly know the people closest to us?”—Lori Gottlieb

FINALIST FOR THE NEW ENGLAND BOOK AWARD

It was a great love story, one for the ages. The speed of our beginning and the speed of our ending felt like matching bookends. They both came out of nowhere. He wanted it, he wanted me. And then he didn’t.

In March 2020, Belle Burden was safe and secure with her family at their house on Martha’s Vineyard, navigating the early days of the pandemic together—building fires in the late afternoons, drinking whisky sours, making roast chicken. Then, with no warning or explanation, her husband of twenty years announced that he was leaving her. Overnight, her caring, steady partner became a man she hardly recognized. He exited his life with her like an actor shrugging off a costume.

In Strangers, Burden revisits her marriage, searching for clues that her husband was not who she always thought he was. As she examines her relationship through a new lens, she reckons with her own family history and the lessons she intuited about how a woman is expected to behave in the face of betrayal. Through all of it, she is transformed. The discreet, compliant woman she once was—someone nicknamed “Belle the Good”—gives way to someone braver, someone determined to use her voice.

With unflinching honesty and profound grace, Burden charts a path through heartbreak to show the power of a woman who refuses to give up on love. Strangers is a stunning, deeply moving, compulsively readable memoir heralding the arrival of a thrilling new literary talent.
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A must read. Still thinking about it.Beautifully written and told. Helped me a lot.thanks, Belle

A Life-changing book

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Some people play their roles so well that you can‘t tell if they‘re faking it or not. These men choose women who still believe in unconditional love.
It is simply not right that such men can legally avoid taking care of their own children. It forces women to still do all the unpaid housework and nursing work, even after they were left by the man.
Thank you for your openness and the courage to show your true feelings, even though society expects us to shut up and accept. Your story also shows that it can happen to any devoted mother, whether privileged or not.

False love or hidden narcissism?

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If you ever had a long term relationship suddenly and for you unexpectedly ending and a person that felt like someone else after the split this is for you and for all interested in such a life story.


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Amazing

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Love how this describes being ghosted in a marriage and the after effects of how society treats women after the discard. Relatable.

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Die Entwicklung der geschiedenen Frau, ihre Einstellung zu ihrer Zukunft und ihre Einsichten in Bezug auf ihren Ehemann, der sie verlassen hat.

Die Einsichten der vom Ehemann verlassenen Frau.

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