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Relationships

By: The School of Life
Narrated by: Fiona Buckland
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A fresh approach to matters of the heart, teaching us that success in love need never again be just a matter of luck.

Love has a history and we ride - sometimes rather helplessly - on its currents. Since around 1750, we have been living in a highly distinctive era in the history of love that we can call Romanticism. And it has been a disaster for love.

Relationships challenges the assumptions of the Romantic view of love. It shows how to develop new attitudes that can lead to a psychologically mature vision of love:

  • That it is okay that love and sex may not always belong together
  • That discussing money early on, in a serious way, is not a betrayal of love
  • That realizing that we are rather flawed, and our partner is too, is of huge benefit to a couple
  • That we will never find everything we need in another person, nor they in us
  • That spending two hours discussing whether bathroom towels should be hung up or can be left on the floor has its own dignity

Full of applied real-life examples, and enlivened throughout with humor and cultural anecdote, this innovative guide paves the way to a new, brighter future for love.

©2016 The School of Life (P)2021 The School of Life
Communication & Social Skills Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Personal Development Relationships
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I totally agree. Since a recent break-up, I've been trying to learn as much as possible about myself and how to love or be in a happy and healthy relationship. I've been analyzing a lot too, and many of the points mentioned I already knew and was living by. But others, mainly ways of thinking and where those thoughts stem from, I did not yet consider. This book, as well as card decks such as Whom Should I Be With, Stay or Leave and Know Yourself, and Youtube videos have helped me immensely, and given me a deep peace in knowing that I can by myself, even for ever, and that's totally alright.

With love and kindness,

Nicole ♡

Love is a skill to be learned

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