Dr. Bruce Chalmer

You’ve been betrayed. Maybe your partner has cheated on you, or abused you, or ruined you financially, or failed to live up to their commitments to you.

Yes! Couples therapy can help—but not by teaching you how to communicate. If you and your partner are having trouble, the problem isn't how you're communicating. The problem is what you're communicating....

Dr. Bruce Chalmer’s Reigniting the Spark shows couples how to build a lasting relationship full of passion and fulfillment. You’ll learn how to improve your communication, have better sex, and avoid pointless arguments....

In this short, easy-to-follow book, Dr. Chalmer helps you understand what happened, and shows you how to begin the work of healing. A simple, seven-word sentence, encompassing three basic principles, will tell you what you need to do....

Is your husband (or boyfriend or fiancé) driving you nuts with his complaints about your cleaning? Hundreds of people have found their way to a blog post on Dr. Chalmer's website by searching for some variation on that theme. And they're obviously not looking for cleaning tips....