Sexual issues are incredibly common - yet very poorly understood. Women complain of low desire. Men lose their erections. Or they prefer to stay at home and masturbate to their favorite porn. Couples quietly suffer in sexless marriages for innumerable years. They only talk in hushed voices about their humdrum, tedious sexual routines. People who are deeply in love and attracted to each other are baffled as to why their sex lives aren’t thriving. Sex therapists, doctors, and other experts each present their own separate solutions to these issues. Yet they largely focus on technique and one-size-fits-all approaches - never getting to the heart of what people are really looking for in their unique sexual connections.

Renowned sex and relationship coaches Danielle Harel, PhD and Celeste Hirschman, MA, have worked with thousands of people over the years, helping them thrive in their sexual lives. As the creators of the Somatica Method - a boldly interpersonal, experiential framework practice - their approach challenges the one-size-fits-all solutions of other therapy methods. In this book, they walk you down the path of finding your unique needs, and through that, enhance your compatibility with your partner. Fast-paced, full of real-life examples, inspiring and educational, this book invites you to discover and accept who you are as a sexual person. Best of all - you get the tools to teach your partner what you want to feel from sex, as well as what you want to do during sex.

Through this book, you will:* Find out what makes sex hot - it’s not what you think!* Learn how hot sex can cure men’s, women’s and couples' top sexual dysfunctions (including ED, low desire, sexless marriage, and porn dependence)* Share your desires with your partner in a way that will increase intimacy without pressure* Celebrate each other's desires to increase intimacy* Gain tools for teaching partners how to really turn you on* Increase compatibility through bridging and/or turn-taking